Today, we welcome guest blogger Donna Raetsen-Kemp, Executive Director of Station Gallery, an art gallery and cultural center in Whitby, Ontario. Her surprise at our recent data on dads and museums made us wonder what was going on in Whitby. Happily, she was willing to share (and provide some great tips!).
This spring, I met James Chung at the Canadian
Museums Association conference, and we had a great chat about museums blowing
off the cobwebs and really engaging their communities. But our most interesting dialogue was about
dads and museums. I was really surprised
to learn that dads just don’t show up at museums in number we might
expect. And reading this summer’s series
about moms and dads in museums on this blog, I continue to be astounded.
Why was I so surprised? At Station Gallery, a
visual arts center in Whitby, Ontario, we've got dads -- dads, dads everywhere.
Far more than one might expect, given the research findings from Reach
Advisors. Go figure.
Do I have hard data? Nope, but it's pretty easy to
spot a dad. They're the guys with kids in tow. Not a day goes by around here
where we don't see a few of them. We have single parent dads,
drop-off dads, time with family dads, "10 minutes to kill" dads,
sports team dads.
Why do we have a more-than-expected number of dads?
That took some thought, but here's a few things we've come up with...
- We mirror -- we adjust our warm
welcome to the individual. Casual, laidback, formal -- it doesn't take long to
figure out what's going to make someone comfortable. A more formal "good
afternoon" or a laid back "hey, we're glad you came by...have
you been here before?" Our experience, most dads today prefer the
latter.
- Family programming that's
fun. In most cases mom will be the one to register the family for
the program, but once dad gets here he realizes it's not stuffy or pretentious.
It's a place he can relax and enjoy with his family.
Next thing we know dad's the one bringing in little Emma
for Parent and Tot class.
- Dads often drop off and pick up
their kids for art class. We throw out the invitation to hang
around for the hour, read a book, grab a coffee or wander inside and out with
their 2-year old. You'd be surprised how many dads stick around.
- A little testosterone-charged
programming. The Art of the Motor exhibition brought dads in like crazy. I
swear that artist Steven Laurie's parking lot
"burnout" performance put Station Gallery into the dad's hall of
fame.
- When the sports teams
are on our doorstep, and sports teams are on our doorstep,
rather than banning them from using our washrooms, we go out and invite them
in. We've got a group of lacrosse teams that come in every year at
tournament time. They know to leave their sticks at the door and
excitedly ask about the exhibition. (No kidding, 15 year-old jocks truly
interested in the exhibition.) These guys will be dads one day, and
they'll have no qualms about bringing their kids to a museum or art gallery. If
we "sniffed" at their presence and didn't let them use the
washrooms what would their outlook on museums be?
- And finally, an overarching
philosophy that seems to resonate with dads--the absence of pretense.
We work fervently every single day to ensure that absolutely everyone
we interact with, whether by phone, email, or in person feels welcome
and that Station Gallery is their place. We're here for them, they
are never an intrusion.
Over the past few weeks I've asked a
few gallery dads why they visit. Straw poll survey says -- because
we make dads feel comfortable. We're not what they expected
from an art gallery. What did they expect? Stuffy, elitist, dull, academic were
some of the words they used. Let's face it - art galleries have a bit of a
reputation and it's not the warm, fuzzy kind.
So...want to get dads? I'm no expert, but try
this--beat down the museum stigma, truly make them feel welcome and create
some programming that will get their attention. We're thinking about piloting a
"No Moms Allowed" program just for dads and kids. We'll let you
know how it works out.
Other museums must be seeing dad's in good
numbers--what's working for you? To share, simply click on “comments”
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- Donna Raetsen-Kemp, Station Gallery